Below are many books – organized by topic – that are helpful resources for healing and resilience. Many of them are available in the Columbia libraries, where you can request them as Kindles, hard copies, or read them online.
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An accessible study of sexual abuse in society, with practical information, research and special exercises for recognizing abuse, and several success stories. Ginny NiCarthy, psychotherapist. Seal Press (1997).
With a theoretical framework and case examples, this book combines the latest findings in biology, neuroscience and body-oriented psychotherapy to bring together instinct and reason, helping readers to become more whole. Peter A. Levine, Ph.D. North Atlantic Books (2012).
Trauma expert Bessel van der Kolk MD shows how traumatic stress re-arranges the brain’s wiring related to pleasure, engagement, control, and trust – and covers neurofeedback, mindfulness techniques, play, yoga, and other therapies. Viking Penguin (2014).
This book offers a range of treatment alternatives and self-management techniques for trauma, survivors reach recovery and growth after pain. Dr. Glenn Shiraldi; Ph.D. Lowell House (2000).
How to regain emotional resilience after a traumatic event, by Mary Beth Williams, PhD, clinical social worker and trauma specialist, and SoiliPoijula, PhD, clinical psychologist and psychotherapist - with techniques used by PTSD specialists based in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and evidence-based therapy. New Harbinger Publications (2013).
Mikele Rauch offers a unique perspective of recover and restoration of the soul. Through a series of interviews with individuals from the five major religions, she considers various ways that religion can do harm. (2009)
Featuring writings by transgender women, with contributions by well known trans women Andrea James, Calpernia Addams, Lynn Conway and Jennifer Finney Boylan. Transgress Press (2014).
Moving beyond dominant narratives and the traditional “violence against women” framework, the book is a multi-gendered, multiracial and multi-layered look at the role queer, transgender and gender non-conforming survivors have in the anti-violence movement.
An anthology of powerfully honest and intimate letters written by trans and non-binary survivors of sexual violence, offering support and guidance to fellow survivors with additional resources for allies and professionals.
Partners, Spouses and Families
Author and incest survivor Laura Davis offers practical advice and encouragement based on in-depth interviews and workshops for those trying to support survivors while tending to their own needs. Harper Collins (1991).
This book outlines the most important things to understand about male rapes, which frequently involves males assaulting other males. Alan W. McAvoy, Jeff D. Brookings and Debbie Rollo. Learning Publications (1999).
Not available in the library
A book about the often-unrecognized toll upon those working with survivors, secondary exposure to trauma and its impacts, and ways to manage these. Authors Laura van Dernoot Lipsky and Connie Burk have worked with survivors of violence and sexual violence, LGBTQ survivors and individuals and organizations on the front line of trauma care and emergency services. Berrett-Koehler Publishers (2007).
Artists, activists, mothers, writers and students share stories of survival, and what it means to them to be an advocate and ally to survivors. Edited by Lisa Factora-Borchers, who worked extensively with survivors of sexual violence in nonprofit and university settings. With Aishah Shahidah Simmons, incest and rape survivor. AK Press (2014)
Claudia Brenner’s personal account of a shooting attack in May 1988 that left her wounded, and that killed her 28-year-old partner, Rebecca Wight. Brenner covers the murder, its aftermath, and her path to recovery and activism. Firebrand Brooks (1995).
Learn eight keys to successful trauma healing, from recognizing survival, to creating supportive inner dialogue, to finding your own recovery pace, and more. Babette Rothschild; MSW and psychotherapist. W.W. Norton & Company (2010).
The testimonies of 34 women who were molested by relatives, neighbors and strangers, and how they survived. Co-edited by Ellen Bass, Louise Thornton, Jude Brister, Grace Hammond, Jean Huntley, and Vicki Lamb. Harper & Row (1983).
This guide offers survivors of rape, their friends and relatives knowledge from social workers and social scientists on the short and long-term effects of rape. It includes information about date rape, rape crisis programs, rape shelters and other social resources, researched by Helen Benedict. Columbia University Press (1994).
Poems crafted from the brutal stories of survivors of domestic and intimate partner violence, with whom author and licensed clinical social worker (LCSW-R) Jane Seskin has worked for decades. Jane Seskin (2013).
This collection breaks the silence surrounding intimate violence within social justice circles, providing practical strategies for dealing with abuse and creating safety outside without relying on the state.
A framework for survivors of sexual assault to overcome substance abuse, panic and anxiety, posttraumatic stress disorder, depression and more. Aphrodite T. Matsakis Ph.D. New Harbinger Publications (2003).
A highly respected resource for understanding and healing the intimate sexual problems caused by sex abuse. Wendy Maltz; CSW, DST, internationally-recognized sex therapist. William Morrow (2012).
Professor of Medicine Emeritus and Executive Director of the Center for Mindfulness in Medicine, Health Care and Society at the University of Massachusetts Medical School, Jon Kabat Zinn introduces new students of mindfulness to the benefits of the practice, including stress reduction, alleviation of depression, chronic pain relief, and more. (2012)
Beyond traditional talk therapy, this book introduces trauma-sensitive yoga for men, women, teens, returning veterans, and othes. Developed with clinicians and yoga teachers, along with medical doctor Bessel van der Kolk. Authored with Elizabeth Hopper, PhD. North Atlantic Books (2012).
Paul Linden of Columbus Center for Movement Studies/Aikido, and facilitator of MaleSurvivor’s Weekends of Recovery, offers wonderful books, articles and resources on mind/body awareness for abuse survivors.
A sex-positive guide for all women survivors of sexual assault - heterosexual, bisexual, lesbian, coupled, and single - who want to reclaim their sex lives. Healing Sex encourages women to learn how to say, "yes" to their own desires and on their own terms. Staci Haines. ReadHowYouWant (2010).
Women from around the world share their personal messages of hope after rape. Letters presented as works of full-color art, with the text of each letter. Matt Atkinson. RAR (2010).
An inspiring, comprehensive guide that offers hope and encouragement to every woman sexually abused as a child - and those who care about her. The authors weave personal experience with professional knowledge to show the reader how she can come to terms with her past while moving powerfully into the future. Eileen Bass; MFA. Harper Collins (1988).
Professor of Women's and Gender Studies, and English Professor Charlotte Pierce-Baker tells the harrowing and courageous account of her own rape and includes the stories of her family's response, and the voices of black men who have supported rape survivors. Published by W.W. Norton & Company (2000).
This book dismantles the way we view rape in our culture and works toward a genuine understanding and respect for female sexual pleasure. Jaclyn Friedman; Master’s in Gender Studies. Seal Press (2008).
Presenting the fierce and vital writing of organizers, lawyers, scholars, poets, and policy makers, Color of Violence puts women of color at the center of the anti-violence movement and maps strategies of resistance used by women of color around the world.
Based on the author's journal, Ashley Warner offers a rare and intimate portrait of a rape survivor's journey in her empowering memoir and workbook about the courage to heal and the promise of peace.
Inspiring accounts of male survivors of childhood sexual abuse whose stories provide other survivors and particularly other male survivors with hope, recognition, and healing. Compiled by Neal King, PhD. Harper Perennial Library (1995).
In this book the prevailing beliefs that sexual assault does not happen to men are challenged and readers are offered hope as they learn the lessons of recovery. Grant Watkins. Tasora Books (2010).
This book, written specifically for men, examines the changing cultural attitudes toward male survivors of incest and other sexual trauma. Mike Lew; psychotherapist and M.Ed. Harper Collins (2004).
This VERA Institute publication by Danielle Sered addresses the disparities faced by young men of color and particularly their experience as victims of crime and violence amid barriers to economic advancement, education and positive health outcomes. New York City VERA Institute (2015).
Richard B. Gartner, Ph.D. offers a comprehensive guide to the realities of male sexual victimization in institutions, sex trafficking and socio-cultural influences on processing and treatment. (2018)
Richard B. Gartner lays out the healing process for men who were abused as children, offering a meaningful way to overcome invisibility, stigma and shame they have endured. (2005)
Richard B. Gartner examines in this volume how sexual betrayal affects boys, the ways they carry this hurt into adulthood and the treatment provided by therapists who work with them. (1999)
Richard B. Gartner presents a comprehensive volume of papers which explore the repressed memory controversy by leading clinicians from a 1995 conference held in New York City. (1996)
Howard Fradkin, Ph.D. has written this inspirational book to empower male survivors of sexual victimization at any age to dare to dream and overcome the effects of trauma and learn to thrive. (2012)
Larry Ruhl's memoir resonates deeply with many who have experienced similar trauma, boundary violations and abuse within the family. (2018)
Film and Theatre
Adapted from the award-winning one-woman show, this compilation of lusty, outrageous, poignant, and thoroughly human stories transform perceptions of the female anatomy. Eve Ensler; award-winning playwright and activist. HERE Arts Center (1996).
The Tale is a 2018 American drama film written and directed by Jennifer Fox. It tells the story about Fox's own childhood sexual abuse and how it affects her later relationships.
A film and federally recognized nonprofit organization that provides outreach, education and services for men who have experienced sexual abuse in childhood, and provides information and resources for survivors’ family members, friends and partners.
Boys and Men Healing is a documentary about the impact that sexual abuse of boys has on both the individual and society, and the importance of healing and speaking out for male survivors to end the devastating effects. (2010)
Advocacy/Self-Help Online Resources
Part of the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs, the New York City Anti-Violence Project provides free and confidential assistance to LGBTQ and HIV-affected individuals in New York City through direct client services, community organizing and public advocacy. The Anti-Violence Project was recognized by the White House for its work on intimate partner violence within LGBTQ & HIV-affected communities.
Education and training for professionals in survivor-centered, trauma-informed care. The Network also maintains a list of organizations and books for understanding the impacts of sexual violence.
Facilitates long-term group work with men and responses child sexual abuse and other forms of intimate violence and analyzes the impact of male supremacy alongside the personal and social transformations needed to end sexual assault.
A network of frontline providers, family members, researchers, and national partners from hospitals, universities, community-based programs and centers across the United States working to increase access to services for survivors. Created by Congress in 2000 as part of the Children’s Health Act.
The nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization, RAINN created and operates the National Sexual Assault Hotline (800-656-HOPE), online.rainn.org and rainn.org/es in partnership with more than 1,100 local-level service providers across the country. It also operates the DoD Safe Helpline for the Department of Defense. RAINN offers programs to prevent sexual violence, help victims and ensure that rapists are brought to justice.
Offers shelter, recovery, and renewal services to survivors of trauma including a 24-hour multilingual helpline, counseling, and community education and outreach to help women.
Safe Horizon is the nation’s leading victim assistance organization, providing support, preventing violence and promoting justice for victims of crime and abuse, their families and communities.
The New York City Alliance Against Sexual Assault strives to prevent sexual violence and reduce the harm it causes through education research and advocacy.
The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence is the voice of victims and survivors. The organization aims to change society by affecting public policy and increasing understanding of the impact of domestic violence.
The Mayor's Office to End Domestic and Gender-Based Violence develops policies and programs, provides training and prevention education, conducts research and evaluations, performs community outreach, and operates the New York City Family Justice Center.